Just read in the "Times" that loneliness among those over 60 is epidemic.
...ya think.
I go for days sometimes weeks without speaking to anyone. My circle of comrades are too many long gone. The ones still breathing are far away. That, and I've become a part time shut-in.
All this evolved so slowly over time that I didn't really notice...well I knew, but didn't. Ya know how that can be.
They say the fire inspectors now look for signs of elder isolation as well as fire hazards during inspections. Well we have inspections here, but it's not door to door...yet.
They just check the building's electrical, and gas systems then split.
Signs of isolation are shabbiness unwashed dishes, and the like. I guess general untidiness. A depressive lack of caring. My digs have always been neat. I try to keep it tidy. Actually I enjoy doing that. One feels better in cute digs.
However with many elders their place may need a paint job. Some plaster work that sort of thing. Most no longer keep their digs up. For some there just doesn't any longer seem to be a point.
Which btw are exactly the signs they look for.
When I was very ill over these last years I knew the only way anyone would know I'd kicked the bucket would be the smell...especially in summer.
I actually left my door a-jar when I thought my time was up so they wouldn't have to kick the door in. I later found that this is somewhat common for the isolated elderly very ill to do...and I thought I had invented it.
Aw well.
Look I'm fine. Just complaining is all. That, and I'm really tired of fighting the damned system. I just want to be left alone for heavens sakes.
On the other hand battling social services is a way to get me out of the house, and speaking with folks so...
3 comments:
Regular social interaction helps prevent Alzheimer’s. Though I admit I don’t know what to suggest in that line.
Maybe it’s our duty as old coots to get out there and tell any young people who’ll listen that this country is screwed and if they’re smart they need to get out (and if they’re dumb they need to stay & help destroy it faster). It might be a worthwhile public service. Just choose your audience with care so they don’t kill you. Truth-tellers aren’t too popular here.
If I think of something better I’ll let you know.
Z
Well I had considered going out with a sign saying, "...Burn Loot Pillage Destroy"
But since everybody is already doing that I just stayed home. Still thanks for paying attention to my scribbles...you're one of maybe five or six. It matters.
Been a few weeks since I read your blog. I don't know why. If writing the blog helps, I am glad. Reading it helps too.
So thanks for that.
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